Inside Annie Mthembu’s journey: From Durban to The Real Housewives Ultimate Girls Trip: Africa 

We caught up with Annie Mthembu from The Real Housewives of Durban to hear more on what we can expect on the show. 

Why have you decided to return to reality TV right now? 

After two years away from the cameras, I finally felt like me again; refreshed, recharged and ready to have fun with it. I took that break to protect my peace and do some serious self-work. Now I’m coming back from a place of strength, not survival. The timing just felt right. I’m in a different space mentally and spiritually, and I wanted to show that growth. Plus, let’s be honest… Once you’ve had a taste of reality TV, it’s hard not to miss that energy! 

As one of the original members of the longest-running franchise in Africa, what were your expectations when you joined The Real Housewives Ultimate Girls Trip: Africa? 

I was excited and a little nervous, because it’s not every day you get a house full of iconic women from all over the continent! My mindset was simple: Go in open-hearted, have fun and represent Durban with grace and a little spice. I wasn’t looking for drama, but I also wasn’t going to dim my light or bite my tongue. I expected laughter, some cultural exchange, a few side-eyes here and there, but mostly, I wanted to experience the magic of African women coming together and owning their power. 

How did you mentally prepare yourself to be back in the spotlight? 

By doing the inner work first. I’ve learned that if your mind and heart aren’t in sync, the spotlight can be heavy. I made sure to go back in knowing who I am, what I stand for and what I will or won’t entertain. I pray, I journal, I affirm myself daily and I’ve built a routine that keeps me grounded no matter what chaos is around me. So yes, I’m back in the spotlight… But this time, the light is mine. 

Did you form any new friendships on the trip? 

I actually did! I met some incredible women who were not only relatable but genuinely fun to be around. There was such a beautiful energy of sisterhood and laughter. It reminded me that women can come together, support one another and still have the best time. I found peace and connection in spaces I didn’t expect, and that was really special for me. 

Which of your cast members surprised you the most? 

Definitely Mariam and Dr C! Both are such vibrant, fun-loving women, full of personality and heart. But let me tell you, don’t play with their fire unless you’re ready to feel the heat. They’re bold, smart and know how to hold their own, and I love that about them. 

Is there anyone who was different on and off camera? 

I think we’re all a little different on and off camera. When the cameras are rolling, you’re in the moment, reacting, expressing and engaging, but off camera, everyone has those softer, more grounded sides. That’s where you get to know the real person behind the glam and the soundbites. 

Are there moments you wish didn’t happen on screen? 

Definitely, there’s a moment where I lost myself a little because some personal triggers came up. But I also believe those moments are part of being real. I owned it, worked through it and came out stronger. Sometimes the uncomfortable parts of our story are the ones that show the most growth. 

If you could crown anyone the drama queen of the season, who would it be? 

Ha! This one’s a definite tie between Mariam and Christall, for sure! Those two brought the spice, the sass and the moments that had everyone talking. You honestly couldn’t predict what was coming next with them. Pure entertainment from start to finish! 

If you could cast the perfect Ultimate Girls Trip, who would be on your list? 

Oh, I’ve definitely thought about this! My dream cast would be Londie for the vibes and that effortless cool energy. Jojo, because we’d never stop laughing. Minnie brings the fire and keeps things exciting. Dr C, she’s such an interesting woman – there’s depth and mystery there. Madam, she’s got her own special sauce and knows how to own a room. Faith, there’s so much I’d love to unpack and understand from her season. Mariam, because she’s pure fun and always up for a good time. And of course, Princess – her energy is electric and she lights up every space she’s in! 

Why should people watch you on The Real Housewives Ultimate Girls Trip: Africa? 

People should watch the show because now they will see a whole new Annie. I’m lighter, happier, and way more self-aware, but still spicy enough to keep things interesting! You’ll see my fun side, my vulnerable side and my evolved side all in one. Expect laughter, heart and a little bit of heat, because I came to enjoy this trip, not just survive it. And trust me, it’s a journey you’ll want to watch unfold. 

Excited for the new season? Don’t miss the premiere on Friday 28 November, on Showmax. 

Words: Showmax 
Photography: Supplied