HOW TO SHOW APPRECIATION FOR EVERY TYPE OF MOM

This month we’re embracing the diversity of motherhood

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All across the world, mothers play a pivotal role, weaving love, care, nurturing and support into the fabric of our existence. Let’s pay it back by celebrating the diversity of moms in today’s society, recognising and cherishing their unique qualities. Each has a special place in our hearts.

1. BIOLOGICAL MOMS
The foundation of many families is laid by the woman who carried the children in her womb. Her love is deep-rooted and the shared DNA forms an unbreakable bond. You are born from a piece of her, and this very concept is what draws you to her. This is a woman who sacrificed her body to give you life. She will guide and fiercely protect you from birth – a role that shouldn’t be taken lightly.

2. ADOPTIVE MOMS
This woman exemplifies unconditional love, choosing to embrace and nurture another woman’s child as her own. Many are unable to conceive a child of their own, but the adoption process gives them the chance to provide love and care. Recognise the significance of her choice. A strong bond with an adoptive mom comes from acknowledging the unique journey that brought you together. Understand the gravity of how much you mean to her – you are the blessing she prayed for.
3. STEPMOMS
Blending families can be challenging, yet it can also be a rewarding experience. A stepmom often navigates the delicate balance of building relationships with both biological parents and stepchildren. It can be tricky, but this woman puts her all into finding and maintaining connections. This role takes patience and perseverance and can be emotionally taxing. Be aware of the effort she puts into getting to know you, creating a sense of home and belonging across households, and how hard she strives to find equilibrium with all family members.
4. MOTHER FIGURES
Maternal figures extend beyond biological and legal connections. Aunts, grandmothers, family friends, religious leaders or mentors can have a profound influence in our lives. They willingly take on a role that involves support, being a confidante and a caregiver.

It is a conscious choice made to lend a hand – often under tough circumstances. Cherish these relationships by always expressing gratitude and making a concerted effort to stay connected, even if distance separates you.

5. FRIENDS AS MOMS
Some people may not have a traditional mother in their life but find maternal love in their friendship circle, with close friends they’ve known for years or just a few months. This type of relationship is a foundation and safety net. The ‘mom friend’ is often a great communicator and able to be emotionally supportive and objective at the same time, a kind of tough love that is rare and precious. Honour these chosen relationships by supporting each other through life’s challenges – and never let the relationship become one-sided.

As we navigate the tapestry of relationships, the different types of moms we encounter enrich our lives in myriad ways. Cherishing and strengthening these bonds involves celebrating the unique qualities each woman brings, and expressing gratitude for the love and support shared. Whether blood-related or not, the essence of motherhood transcends traditional boundaries, creating a beautiful mosaic of love and connection.

HOW TO SHOW APPRECIATION:

Express gratitude: Take a moment (often) to sincerely thank her for everything she does.

Quality time: Whether it’s a meal, a walk or a movie night, giving her your undivided attention reinforces your love.
Thoughtful gestures: Breakfast/coffee in bed or leaving a heartfelt note can make her day.
Help with chores: Ease her workload around the home. It’s a practical way to acknowledge her work.
Celebrate special occasions: Have a plan, whether it’s a surprise party, family gathering or a weekend getaway.
Listen & communicate: Take the time to listen to her thoughts and feelings. This fosters understanding and strengthens your bond.
Give gifts with meaning: Put some thought into in and choose something with sentimental value or that reflects her interests.
Create memories: Shared moments and experiences will always be cherished.
Recognise her efforts: She puts a lot into life, be it work, parenting or personal passions.

Words by: Charlton Knight
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